Mundane sex lifes are based upon not being willing to try new things, inexperience and most of all misconceptions. The biggest misconception is from men who think that they can go from 0 to 60 (sex) without warming up the engine. Men think that women can get as turned on as quick as them. This is wrong!

 

Women are very different from men, they work differently.  Men get mostly turned on through visual stimulation, when women get turned on by what they hear, what they see and what they feel! Basically you have to pre-heat the oven before you go ramming your bun in.